As I had previously mentioned, I actually set my "resolutions" on my birthday, because that's the day I count my age so I personally feel that it is a better milestone of my goals and accomplishments. Whenever you chose to set your dreams, please don't give up on them!
The most depressing feeling to me is to age a year without feeling accomplished for what I had done in that year of my life. I am depressed to read people dreading turning 25, 20, even 18. How is it possible that people met such a landmark with dread and sadness instead of excitement and enthusiasm? we are all capable of doing so much and being everything that we want to be! It's sort of like you're spending your life thinking about what you should be doing or what you wished you had done instead of doing what you want to be doing in the first place! While it's frusterating not to achieve a goal, please don't give up on what you want out of life!
I would recommend everyone to just stop and think for a minute about a tangable, realistic goal for this year and to reconsider attempting to achieve it. Sometimes life can be overwhelming and there is always too much to do and too little time. Sometimes sacrifices must be made, but we can't lose sight of personal growth and our own dreams and aspirations. Many of us have so much going on in our lives and so many people that we need to support and help that we forget to actually take care of and support ourselves!
I would love for you to share with me both the things you would hope to accomplish in the upcoming year and all of the wonderful things you were able to do in the past year. If you were unable to meet your goal, instead of tossing it aside why not take a cold hard look at why you weren't able to accomplish it.
As for me, my goal was to become more healthy; I worked very hard and feel a lot better about myself and for that I feel blessed and greatful. This year, I am graduating so I will be focusing on finally finishing my last year of school, finding a job, and finding my first apartment! As with every year, my one resolution which is constantly on going is to try new things all of the time and to meet new people and make new friends. This is a goal which I hope to maintain my entire life!
Oh, and if I have any spare time I would love to learn how to play the guitar, how cool would that be? I should also probably draw more often haha!
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I have turned into a serious perfectionist over the last year... letting it affect totally the wrong parts of my life... Also, with the whole crush thing you just mentioned in other comments, I really let myself think about the one guy far too much. It's the worst thing you can do... you can't go around thinking a guy will make your life better and that you can't do without him. That just leads to... sad times in the end. And I felt in my head like I had to be like this girl who he was going out with and maybe I'd be happier, but she was depressed! And not someone I even liked. How could I be kidding myself like that? I should've just been happy being me and not dwelled on the fact he'd rather be with her. It's stupid how we can think that way sometimes!
My resolution's to stop putting myself down when I fail. <3
Yeah sometimes we all do stuff which is bad for us; but in the end I am always glad anyway because I would feel.... well, empty if I didn't have my experiences. The bad ones help you be more greatful for the good ones, and also sympathetic to others. Like if you had never experienced a bad breakup, for a random example, you could never really truly understand and help your friend who is going through one... compassion is born of familiarity!
It's so hard to be positive when you're down, but it's proven to help you feel better faster so it's worth the effort to always try! (easier said than done, right?)
My only 'firm' goal for last year was to get a full-time job and save, save, SAVE so I can get over to London to marry my fiancé, I am glad to say that happened and while I've had a few set backs I'm happy with last year and it's given me a few more ideas on what to do for this year. I failed in my other goal, which was to fill up a diary about my life, I think it taught me writing about myself isn't my thing lol so I'm not upset or feel like a failure for not doing that.
This year I plan to save more, draw more [I did not draw much last year] and be a better partner to my fiancé and to also grow in my new faith and learn more about it. Here's hoping! :3
-go skiing (never been)
-start school again in Spring/Summer
-find me new friends (I've constantly been moving for the last few years)
-become healthier in the way I live and feel about myself
-buy my own first car ^^
-...try to enjoy and appreciate more what life brings
That pretty much sums up everything
Yeah makes new friends can be tough... but should go hand in hand with going back to school! So easy to meet new people at school!
Also, what kind of car are you looking at? or just something safe and practical?
Yupp, I just never had a chance to go skiing before, but now that I live in MI (LOTS of snow), I might be lucky lol
Oh yes, I've heard a lot about the Olympics and seen them sometimes on TV.
Indeed, as soon as school starts there will be plenty of new people to befriend with...can't wait to start.
I want a car that is good on mileage, as well as appealing to my taste
The car/s I had my eyes on...*drumroll* is a Pontiac G6 (<3), Pontiac Grand Prix (not as fuel efficient as others...), Chevrolet Malibu, Chevrolet Impala or Ford Fusion ... he he he
But, I want to have a used one..there is no way I could ever afford a new car at the moment.
And also, obeying this one tip from my parents: Not older than an 2004 Model..Im not exactly sure why(probably beacuse of safety, gas, mileage and such), but ok